To gain such control over one's life, necessitates being an optimist in that you must believe in the possible. Then I can start to make that vision a reality. Creating my life entails deep self-evaluation and asking myself, 'who do I want to be?'. Yes, life gives us constraints, however, we have far more power to mold our destiny that many of us (perhaps including myself) realize. Many of us do not even realize that we've made such a decision, but in fact we make it everyday. I believe one of the most fundamental choices that we all make in life is whether or not we will live our lives as victims. When I first saw the title on his blog, it immediately connected it to thoughts that I hold dear. Rather, I borrowed it from a fellow blogger, named creatingmylife, who has a blog by the same name.
This post is part of my Life Thoughts series that attempts to document and share my views on life and the principles that guide me through it.įirst a disclaimer: The title of this post is not original.